Prayer When a Husband/Wife Commits Adultery

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“Heavenly Father you know how broken my heart is. I feel hurt, abandoned, angry, confused and tormented. Lord, come into my heart and heal it. Touch every part of me that is broken and aching. Heal the hurt of my husband/wife betraying me. Heal the hurt of my husband/wife lying to me. Lord I have so many hurts please heal them all. Lord, give me wisdom. I’m not sure what to do. As you speak to me give me the courage to follow through.

Lord, give me new direction. I know with you all things are possible. I would ask that you would show my husband/wife the wrong he/she has done. Show him/her the pain he/she has caused. Convict him/her. Turn his/her heart around to want to do right. Give him/her a new heart. Lord, I am asking that you would heal our marriage. I know with you all things are possible. I pray my husband/wife would be willing.

In the name of Jesus I now pull down this demonic spirit of ADULTERY – it has NO POWER over me, my spouse and our marriage. SATAN – get your hands off of our marriage in Jesus name! I now claim healing, restoration, love and forgiveness over our marriage, our family and our relationship. I now confess that Satan’s powers are broken and Jesus rules and reigns over our marriage. I now claim complete restoration in our relationship.

Lord, I cannot forgive him/her. I feel so much anger, hate and bitterness. Lord, I allow YOU to forgive him/her through me. Lord, during this time I ask that you would fill me with your love. You have never abandoned me. You have never forsaken me. I put my trust completely in you. Hold my hand as I walk this difficult journey. Send angels to minister to me.”

In Jesus name I pray.

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Friend, I encourage  you to say this prayer out LOUD, with authority. Say it first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Every time you feel out of control or upset repeat this prayer. God is on YOUR side. I am praying for you. Satan’s powers are broken.

37 responses

  1. Thx jackie for this site for direction to fight against satans attack. My wife of 25 years left me on April 6, 2015 and is now seeing another man. She has been by my side as a pastor for these last 15 years. I lost my wife, my home, and my pastorate in one week. My soul is crushed everyday and I love my wife so much even though she is committing adultery. My three kids 24, 22, and 19, are hurting also and dont understand how a loving wife, mother, and grandmother could do this. I am beyond myself. Please pray for our restoration. thx Her name is Anisa! The guys name is Eric.

    • Roger, wow you have been through so much. Does God know? yes. Does God understand? yes. Does God care? yes. Is God still our healer, deliever, hope and high tower? yes, yes, yes. If you are not already on an electronics media fast then begin one (see my post under Fasting and Prayer). Stay on the fast for at least 6 months to a year. Get your house purified. Removed ANYTHING that is questionable – particularly music and movies that are questionable – even if they are kids movies. The battle is on. God is on your side warfaring for your home, family, ministry and wife. I stand with you in fasting and prayer. Keep me posted.

  2. thank you so much for replying to my message. yes I very much want to move on but I am afraid of commiting sin against God and my husband. I hav left him for 7 yrs but since he is physically stronger than me he forced his way back into my life. i wish i was somewhere civilised where men treat women with much respect

  3. please pray for my husband and.the women he has affairs with as they do not know what they are doing. I am really thankful for this encouraging site that has strenghten me to pray and have faith in the Lord and the Lord has been good to me by giving me his peace now that I have peace and learnt to atleast speak nicely to my husband eventhough he is living with his mistresses who texts me lies about their sexual acts and how he promises to marry them. please pray for me so that i will continue to hav patience upon the Lord and wait for his directions whetheer to get seperation o to wait for my husbands return.

  4. I am a regular reader of this site. My husband is more a casual visitor to our home. He goes off for years and the comes home once or twice a year. He has been and is having sexual relationship with many women outside of marriage and his family supports him and they all pretend that nothing of such happened eventhough I have evident. I am hurt and lonely and no one knws. i pretend to be well outside but so hurt, depressed and stressed out and anxiety is causing short of breath and high blood pressure in me. i am the only provider for my kids. He doesnt support me in raisin my 5 kids and lies for his gain. i lost my job because of my depression and its more worst he is not here and mu struggle is too much when i cant even afford a grain of rice for our kids. Please beloveds in the Lord, pray for me as i struggle with my problems

    • Friend, why would you let that man back into your home or your life? He is using you. He no longer cares about you or his family. By you allowing him back “occasionally” you are telling him that it is ok for him to use you and that you don’t value yourself. Until he changes his ways, repents of his sins and comes back to Christ you must not allow him to come back into your life. If he wants to see the kids you can meet him at a park. Sick people don’t change until they are given consequences, up till now you have not given him any. You are called to a life of peace, not turmoil. Stand up for your life and take back the peace God has called you to. Be strong. Daily pray for courage. Move on with your life – with out this man.

      • pray for my family reconstruction.my husand is committed to adultry and left me alonly please pray for him

        On 6/9/15, Mountain Streams Healing Center: Founded by Jackie Osinski

  5. Good Day

    My name is Joe, we have been engaged for 2 years now with my husband and i have been cheating for him and I dont know why. I have came to realize now that he is also cheating, every Fridays he will tell me that his cell phones has a problem, this ha been happening for 4 weeks now, i have discovered that he is involved with some lady, who is introducing him to casual sex, and the lady wants them to make love anywhere and it seems as my husband is very excited about, i am very exhausted fighting with I dont know what to do anymore, he is not aware that i know about the women but i told him that i am suspecting that something is happening in his life.

    Pls pray for me and my husband.

  6. My husband is with another woman telling me he move on because I would not come back he is normally verbally abusive he put his need first I have been hurt by him I know that it the devil that came into our marriage am praying that god will give me directions on which way to go divorce or continue to just be separated.

  7. Please pray for me.my family life in biter.my husbnd always asking me divorce.he dsn’t lisen any 1 talks.he has 1more relation and bad frnds.at last he gave time to decide on 24 of this monht.I didnt want that divorce.my name chaitra husbnd name melwin.

    • Peace beloved. If your husband divorces you let him go. You can still warfare in the spirit realm. You cannot make someone stay that doesn’t want to – but you can warfare that his eyes will be opened and that his heart will change. You position is to try to trust God through all of this and cling to Christ your true Husband. Praying for you.

  8. I have been struggling to break free from an adulteress affair and now my husband says it’s over. But I’m struggling to fight this feeling of hopelessness. I love my husband but I was trapped in lust and lies. I want my marriage but I fear I’ve hurt him one too many times. I’m going to fight for this. I have too.

  9. Please pray for me to understand. Why i feel so rejected by my husband. He is the one eho had the affair he is the one that brroke my and kids heart. Why should i keep fighting for our marriage and family. When he does nothing to make. Things right or better. When will my prayers. Be answered. When?

  10. Very glad to come across this wonderful prayer which gives hope for hopeless people like me.Need your prayers for the healing of my heart and the ability to forgive my husband.Also that he may be able to look into his faults n accept it graciuosly.I want him back in totality.

    • kindly pray for me Jackie.A very difficult time for me in life. Somthing absolutely unexpected from my husband.I have a strong beleif hes been brainwashed by the other woman.Pray that he should never be attracted to her in life hereafter and he understands the hurt caused to me.

  11. Please help me Pray for my husband.. The Lord knows what he struggles with. I will always pray that the Lord can put Love In my heart, not hate for him.

  12. This prayer is a true blessing for me at this very tough time of my life. God bless you for sharing this post. I feel at peace with my heart, reading this.

  13. My husband left me two weeks ago. i have been struggle to keep up how to remove the obstacle that been bother me. Lord i want fight the demon that keep bother my marriage

  14. It’s a blessing that I found your blog. It helps me alot with regards to healing my heart because it’s hard to wake up with a heavy heart and a broken spirit.. thank you for this prayer may godbless you

    • I am so thankful for this prayer.
      My husband has been abusive for the past 5 years. I stood by even he became violent. I guess it was part of stress of us working so many hours, for material ambitions.
      I have been through a lot. I lost my job, my registration was suspended and all trials.
      I managed to forgive him in my heart and.surrendered everything to GOD.
      I acknowledged my mistakes and regretted for how many times God knocked on me but I never have surrendered everything until all ordeal.
      My husband was having an affair.since.2011 not until last year he totally left us after i had been going through crisis in my career and.everything.
      Despite all he has done, i have forgiven him. I am praying that he will have Restoration and will seek Christ.as.he is totally lost and his.mistress as well that she will realised the destruction she has done to our family.
      That Together me and my husband will seek God’s love and in unity.
      Please pray for my husband.

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